Ruined married life......?

I am also a hairy man but fortunately my wife like that too much. If she were in the same way as in your case, she would not have been my wife at this moment. Married life is mutual acceptance and mutual participation. For example if any one of the tyres of the car punctured and other running what will happen. So remove / replace that punctured tyre and continue your journey man. There is nothing hell than hurting once self esteem.